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Every ring begins with a conversation. Designed with you, hand-crafted from raw metal at our Edward Street workshop, and delivered fully insured anywhere in the world.
One style, seven shapes
Every ring designed in conversation and hand-crafted on Edward Street, in 18ct gold or platinum, around the diamond shape you love.
Or begin with a blank page.
Every ring in this collection began as a conversation, and yours can too. Bring a picture, an heirloom, or nothing but a story, and design a fully custom toi et moi engagement ring with our head designer at the bench where it will be made.
- i.A free 45-minute consultation, on Edward Street or by call
- ii.Sketches and refinement until it is exactly right
- iii.Hand-crafted within two to three weeks, video previewed, insured to your door
See the diamonds in person.
A free 45-minute consultation at the same bench where your ring will be made. Bring an idea, an heirloom, or just a story.
Book Your ConsultationToi et Moi lab-grown diamond engagement rings, hand-crafted in Brisbane
Toi et moi, French for you and me, sets two stones side by side on one band: two lives, two stories, meeting in a single ring. The style has history, famously chosen by Napoleon for Josephine in 1796, and it has momentum, currently the most searched engagement ring style in the world. Few rings carry meaning this literally, and none wear it more beautifully.
The art of a toi et moi is in the pairing. Contrast is what makes the style sing: a pear against an oval, a round against an emerald cut, two stones of slightly different scale nestled so they read as one composition rather than two rivals. The band must curve to hold both stones securely while letting them sit close, which is bench work that rewards being done by hand. Ours are designed stone-first, so the two diamonds are chosen together under the same light before the setting is sculpted around them.
Every toi et moi we make holds certified lab-grown diamonds, D or E colour, VS1 clarity or better, graded by IGI or GIA, hand-crafted at 150 Edward Street, Brisbane. Because pairings are personal, this style is our most commissioned custom design: create your own toi et moi with our head designer, browse the full engagement ring collection for the shapes you might pair, or book a free consultation and play matchmaker with the stones in person.
Questions, answered
What is a toi et moi engagement ring?
Toi et moi is French for you and me: a ring that sets two stones side by side on one band, symbolising two lives meeting. Napoleon proposed to Josephine with one in 1796, and today it is the most searched engagement ring style in the world.
Which diamond shapes pair best in a toi et moi?
Contrast makes the style work. A pear against an oval is the modern classic, a round against an emerald cut plays sparkle against architecture, and slightly different stone sizes help the pair read as one composition. We choose both stones together under the same light.
Can a toi et moi use coloured stones?
Beautifully. A lab-grown diamond beside a sapphire or another coloured gem is one of the most personal versions of the style, often chosen to carry a birthstone or a favourite colour. Ask about pairings in your consultation.