Toi et moi, French for you and me, sets two stones side by side on one band: two lives, two stories, meeting in a single ring. The style has history, famously chosen by Napoleon for Josephine in 1796, and it has momentum, currently the most searched engagement ring style in the world. Few rings carry meaning this literally, and none wear it more beautifully.

The art of a toi et moi is in the pairing. Contrast is what makes the style sing: a pear against an oval, a round against an emerald cut, two stones of slightly different scale nestled so they read as one composition rather than two rivals. The band must curve to hold both stones securely while letting them sit close, which is bench work that rewards being done by hand. Ours are designed stone-first, so the two diamonds are chosen together under the same light before the setting is sculpted around them.

Every toi et moi we make holds certified lab-grown diamonds, E or F colour, VS1 clarity or better, graded by IGI or GIA, hand-crafted at 150 Edward Street, Brisbane. Because pairings are personal, this style is our most commissioned custom design: create your own toi et moi with our head designer, browse the full engagement ring collection for the shapes you might pair, or book a free consultation and play matchmaker with the stones in person.